Archive for February, 2009

Facebook calling….

Saturday, February 28th, 2009

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Any parishioners, blog readers, friends and fans of S. Barnabas’ Church are warmly invited to join the new ‘Facebook’ group I have created for the parish. The link is here.

The group will keep all Facebook addicts up to date with parish events, news etc…. For those in the dark facebook is a social networking site which allows people to keep in touch over the internet. If you are not a member- fret not, there is no need to join and the bog will keep you in touch with news! But if you are a member, or enjoy social networking sites, why not join…and add me as a friend! It will help connect all Facebooking Barnabites together!

Keeping a good Lent: Fasting

Saturday, February 28th, 2009

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A good way to understand ‘fasting’ is to view it as the voluntary ‘giving up’ of something that is, in-itself, good. The most typical example is the restricting of the food we eat. We can fast between meals, by not eating snacks, or else engage in a complete fast by abstaining from all food for a specified period (most usually a day).

While fasting takes an outward form of ‘refraining from eating’, it is the inner spiritual discipline that really matters. The fast must not only engage body, but mind and spirit too. (Otherwise it is not really a fast at all, just an extreme diet!!) A fast is a deliberate but temporary surrendering of pleasure, designed to tame the body. A fast helps us ensure we control our pleasures and that they do not cotrol us. This frees us to focus on the ‘higher things’ of life.

But reader take note! The temporary nature of a fast is vitally important. God does not want us to grow into dry, dusty, mean old misers -forever depriving ourselves of pleasure. Such figures may exist but they are neither attractive nor desirable. No, we are called to enjoy this life, including its many and various pleasures, so long as they are wholesome and not damaging. We are to be warm, generous and happy people. That is what God desires from us. The fast then is to be a break from the norm- it is not to be the rhythm for life. That is what gives it both strength and meaning.

By stepping aside from normality and controlling our passions, we free our souls for ’special’ moments of prayer. By sacrificing meals, we free up food and money that can then be offered to others, less fortunate than ourselves. This saving might seem insignificant at first, but if every Christian sent the money saved from a day of fasting- imagine the enormous impact it would have. This year at S. Barnabas we are collecting for the ‘Additional Curate’s Society’- why not add your ‘fast’ savings to the box?

A final point is that fasting can be used as an act of contrition. We can offer a day or meal without food as a way of saying ’sorry’ for sins we have committed. This is often why I try to spend Good Friday without food- a way of sharing, if in only a tiny way, in the suffering of Christ. My way of accepting that my sins were part of those that placed him there.

In former times the Church set very stringent rules for Lenten fasting (abstaining from all meat until Easter and eating only one small meal per day). Today we are only asked to fast on Ash Wednesday and Good Friday. Anyone over 18, but under 60, should eat only one meal on those days, preferably after Sundown.

So will you fast this Lent? Here are three simple ways to ensure you do not neglect this discipline in your spiritual life:

1) Give up meat on Fridays (not just in Lent but always). Not only is it healthy but it ensures our faith and food combine.

2) Fast for a minimum of one hour before the Mass. This ensures we spiritually prepare for mass. The hunger of our body can help us consider the hunger in our souls before we greet Christ in word and sacrament.

3) Eat nothing during daylight hours on Ash Wednesday and Good Friday each year. Offer the money you save to charity, pray during the times you would eat and offer the sacrifice of this food as an act of sincere penitence…but more of that tomorrow!

Keeping a good Lent: Almsgiving

Friday, February 27th, 2009

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One of the traditional disiplines of Lent is almsgiving. Giving alms, Jesus teaches, means making the needs of others our own, especially the needy. They are all around us: children and elderly, the sick and suffering, families and individuals, neighbours and those living faraway. If we are honest we easily forget the needs of others and seldom do much about it. So let us all reflect on the fact that Jesus taught us: giving will make us live.

What shall we give to the needy this lent? In deciding, decide generously. After all, before us is the great alms Jesus gave: “He loved us, and gave himself up for us.” So why not choose a really worthy charity for a one off payment this Lent? And having done that find time to consider your wider, more regular giving.

I think there is a danger here! This is a suggestion easily ignored by the modern Christian. Why? Because money is very close to our hearts in this consumerist age. It can so easily become our ‘god’ and we can live in denial about how significant a priority it has become. I remain convinced- this is the reason most people ’swith off’ when money is mentioned in Church. Becuase we love money, we resent the fact that God’s house requires funding. Yes, many a heart fails to find Jesus becuase it is consumed with desire for personal gain.

What has intrigued me since being a priest is people’s level of giving. In every church I have known the following is true; a committed minority give sacrifically- the rest give pitifully. And little that is said or done will change this. If you preach on giving – the sacrifical give more, the pitiful givers ignore you! Even if the budget is in defecit, or the building crumbling, people bury heads in the sand. Finance turns off the heart and ears like little else! Thus the wallet remains the very last thing people offer to God!

At S. Barnabas we have some very generous supporters. I thank God for them daily. And as a congregation we are steadily getting better…but there is still a way to go. As ever we remain frustrating close to breaking even…but a little way from it. Yet ironically, and probably at the disapproval of the Diocesan board of finance, I do not really care about the current budget. I have always been fairly disinterested in money, which rather bores me. I desire healthy giving only because it is the sure sign of true and living faith. The day everyone is giving sacrifically -is the day that we are coming alive to God as a united and committed family!

So as Lent begins let us each ask three questions whilst at prayer:

1) What does my level of giving say about my faith? Does it reveal a generous, thankful heart or a mean, resenting Spirit?

2) What place does giving to God have in my monthly outgoings? What does this say about the priority of faith in my life?

3) Do I find giving difficult or easy? How important is money to me? Is there a danger that I love wealth a little too much?

The discipline of alms giving is always a challenge. But remember- Jesus told us that giving will set us free! Grow closer to God- stop relying on financial security to provide for your needs and place your trust in him.

Well done!

Thursday, February 26th, 2009

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Here is a picture of Mr. Happy! Though not penitential or solemn, I thought it an apt image following such a well kept Ash Wednesday yesterday. Over the course of two services 174 heads were ‘ashed’. The morning Mass was lively and inspiring, the evening Mass dignified and sacred. So a huge ‘thank you’ and ‘well done’ to all who attended…now let us keep going through Lent as we pray for one another, confess our sins (formally is best), reflect inwardly on our spiritual formation and prepare for the great feast of Easter. I am looking forward to a first Easter ‘on the blog’ and a fourth in the parish…where does time go?!

The toilets are coming down!

Wednesday, February 25th, 2009

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At long last…after many years of nagging, pleading, protesting and bewailing…the disgusting redundant lavatories that loom over the entrance to the Church car park are being pulled down. This will be ‘news of great joy’ for the many local residents who are sick to the back teeth of living alongside this rotting monstrosity. At last the pre-school children will have a safe and pleasant passage into the hall and the whole road will look less like an industrial warzone.

Our thanks must go to superstar of the moment- County Councillor Kevin Lynes. Since joining the ‘S. Barnabas Community Centre’ steering committee (aimed at transforming our tired parish hall into a thriving resource for local people), Kevin has worked tirelessly on our behalf. Not only has he been instrumental in the removal of this eye sore, he has raised funds for the school, organised a trip to county Hall for local children, introduced me to useful contacts within local government and offered much help and expertise with the plans to build our community centre. It is not often that priests endorse those running for political office, but I have no hesitation in stating my hope that Kevin is elected to office for the S. James’ ward this coming June. After years of neglect and inactivity- this community desperately needs a sincere man of action who can deliver on promises. So I hope he gets in…that I may continue to work with him for the good of this vibrant, but often forgotten community.

Gosh that sounded a bit like a party political broadcast! Well as a Christian priest I remain somewhat suspicious of all parties, often siding with the left on matters of social justice and the right on matters of morality, economy and community living. So this ringing endorsement must be due to the incredible sense of relief at seeing those tiles and bricks tumbling…the vision to transform S. Barnabas church and parish moves another step forward! Long may our progress continue!!

Ash Wednesday

Wednesday, February 25th, 2009

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Lest we forget what the season of Lent is about- Oak Class are modelling for us their most penitent faces! This year we are treading new ground in the parish by running a course within the eldest class at school for those wishing to make their ‘first communion’. As was explained to the children, the gift on offer is free but it is in no way cheap. Only those genuinely desiring full membership of the church should apply, we will expect reasonable Sunday attendance from them and a mature attitude to the study course. And whilst all may begin , only those showing dedication and right attitude will be admitted. Having laid down these stringent rules I wondered if I had scared them away! But no, a goodly number are very interested, so watch this space for developments. If only one child comes to true and living faith it will have been well worth it…please pray for the children, especially those lacking support for such endeavour in the home. What is exciting is that this might be leading to a mass Baptism in the Mass! A healthy sign of a school community in which faith is taken very seriously indeed.

The photograph of the children was taken following the 10am Mass in school. All 110+ children, staff and supporting members of the congregation were imposed with ash according to the ancient rite. As ever the children were very enthusiastic and have pledged to keep the ash in place all day! Thanks go to Frances on the piano and Andy who acted as server. Andy was kind enough to allow me to photograph his forehead as evidence of correct practice occuring within the parish today…

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….and on that note I share a pointless observation. It is only on Ash Wednesday that I realise how diverse ‘foreheads’ are!! Some are massive, offering space to paint an entire mural, others feeble little things with barely room for a squiggle! Some are dry and present a perfect canvas for a thick black cross, others greasy and almost impossible to mark!! What unique and fascinating creatures we are!! And what variety of ‘foreheads’ goes undetected by the populous at large!

Tonight will be our more formal Mass, at which it is hoped the majority of the congregation will be present. My prayer is that all Christians might make the most of Lent this year. Let each of us pledge to keep it faithfully. It is easy to think it does not really matter- when in fact it is to the benefit of God’s church and world. And remember – by being faithful ourselves- we inspire others. Such knock on effect can do wonders for the church on earth. Simple little things but together they make us strong.

Shrove Tuesday

Wednesday, February 25th, 2009

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Yesterday was Shrove Tuesday, the final ‘green’ day before Lent. Rosary was said in church at 11.15am, one good soul arrived for confession, Angelus & Mass were offered at noon, a meeting of the Community Centre Steering Committee was held, Ash Wednesday was prepared and a sermon for Sunday was written. Phew! And what was my reward for all this dediacted hard work? Certainly not pancakes – as I went without…cue sympathy!! Hayley and I both having forgot to organise something.

Jemima was more fortunate however, having fully indulged herself on them at nursery! And she was not alone in ‘preschool pancake pandemonium’ for as I arrived at Church I was welcomed by our very own group, the ‘Barna-bus’, eagerly tossing pancakes around an obstacle course!! Hence the photographs in today’s post. Full marks to Hilary, the deputy head, for having celebrated each and every child’s efforts with such rapture and enthusiasm!

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And now it is Ash Wednesday….a meeting in school at 8am; school Mass with imposition of ashes at 10am…and Solemn Mass with imposition at 8pm. Let us begin in earnest our preparations for the Easter feast.

Congratulations Father Peter!

Tuesday, February 24th, 2009

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I am delighted to announce that Fr. Peter Walker SSC (pictured with a former curate, Fr. Stather SSC) has been Canonised in Chelmsford Cathedral. Father Peter is parish priest at S. James the Great in Colchester, (website here) It was the last parish I worshipped in as a layman and the place in which my vocation to the priesthood was nurtured and blossomed. The magnificent building, dating from the 12th Century, is pictured below:

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I arrived at S. James’, a rather lax Anglican with an evangelical background, in order to teach year 4 at the local church primary school. Whilst passionate about the faith, I had never really enjoyed church, feeling it did not suit me and I did not suit it! But all of that was about to change! I still recall the first Sunday, Fr Peter was away and someone called +Edwin was covering, clouds of incense alerting me to something new. It was my first encounter with devout and orthodox Catholicism and it affected me deeply. Over the course of the following three years I was challenged, encouraged and educated…and the rest, as they say, is history! I had arrived fairly disinterested in the church, I left giving my whole life to it! Not only had the doctrine and worship lit up my soul, I was deeply moved and impressed by the utter dedication which Father Peter showed to the parish. He was an important part of my journey into the priesthood (though being humble I suspect he does not know that) and that is why I feel an especial joy that he has been recognised formally as the excellent priest that he is. Well done Fr. Peter- and thank you for all you did for the parish, and for me. Doesn’t he look good in red piping!

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I offer the personal account of my journey to faith in order to flag up vocations. God is the one who calls but every potential priest needs encouragment and help from fellow Christians. Do you have a vocation? Do you know someone who might? Are you doing everything you can to foster vocations to the priesthood? Do you try and encourage people to at least consider the possibility? These are questions we should all be asking as we seek to build God’s kingdom on earth. It is also the reason that S. Barnabas is supporting ‘the Additional Curate’s Society’ this Lent. We join them in praying that God will continue to provide us with good and holy priests for his church….shame about the end product at S. Barnabas I guess, but then -if God calls me- it proves he can call anyone!

Countdown to Lent: Stations of the Cross

Sunday, February 22nd, 2009

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Stations of the Cross are a vital part of Lentern devotions at S. Barnabas. As a priest I am drawing special attention to them in 2009, in the hope that we might encourage healthy numbers. It would be especially pleasing if some of our ‘Sunday morning only’ crowd made the step up and committed to them as a sign of a growing faith and as a gift of ‘extra time’ for Jesus. But what are the Stations and why do we keep them?

The Stations of the Cross are a set of images about the Passion and death of Jesus. They lead us prayerfully through the last journey Christ made on his way to crucifixion. Most of the images are drawn from Scripture, whilst others, such as Saint Veronica wiping the face of Jesus, are taken from holy tradition.

The tradition of the Stations began in Jerusalem, where pilgrims would follow the actual route taken by Jesus from his unfair trial to his painful death at Calvary. Pilgrims would stop at crucial moments to contemplate the events, standing at the very sites where tradition held that they took place. This route became known as the Via Dolorosa or Sorrowful Way.

European Christians on Pilgrimage brought back the custom of remembering the Passion through various devotions as early as the 4th century. Obviously they could no longer stand at the actual sites and so depictions were made and placed around the church. The term Stations was first applied to these devotions by the English pilgrim, William Wey in 1428, by which time they were already widespread and popular throughout Europe. In 1505, Peter Sterchx of Flanders published the highly influential work called Cruysgang (“Way of the Cross”), a guide book to the Stations that did much to develop the devotions as we know them today. The first twelve Stations were placed in their current order by a Dutch writer, Adrichomius in 1584 in, Via Crucis, Way of the Cross. Pope Clement XII fixed the official number at 14, which was confirmed in 1742 by Pope Benedict XIV, and which is still the most common number.

At S. Barnabas we will be praying the Stations of the Cross each Sunday evening at 6.30pm. It is hoped that as many as possible will make this a Lentern practice, as we reflect together on all that Jesus has done for us on the Cross. Each week will be slightly different as we offer different thoughts and prayers on the way of the cross.

Don’t wait till Wednesday!

Saturday, February 21st, 2009

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Lent is breathing down our necks. It is very nearly here- and the wise Christian should be preparing themselves ahead of Ash Wednesday, that we might hit the floor running! So how do we observe a good and holy Lent? How to ensure a joyful time of meditation, reflection and penitence, rather than a miserable, half hearted lull during which we simply ignore chocolate! The purpose of Lent is spiritual renewal and not healthy eating…though most of the Western world forgets this. What is the point of giving up something if we move no closer to Christ? So let us focus on the spiritual and not the physical during Lent 2009.

Of course keeping Lent will be different for everyone, and each will have their own traditions. But if you are looking for direction here is a little checklist to help:

Extra Devotion: Take up an extra service each week and really focus when in attendance. At S. Barnabas it is being suggested that the ‘Stations of the Cross’ on Sunday Evenings offer the perfect opportunity.

Clear your diary: during Holy Week NOW. It is a week when you will be giving quality time to God. I strongly believe that attendance at the WHOLE Triduum- Maundy Thursday, Good Friday and Holy Saturday night (or Dawn on Easter Sunday) is an absolute minimum. If you profess to love Christ but cannot even be in attendance when the church proclaims his death and resurrection, what does that say about your faith? Be there….it WILL make a difference to your spiritual life.

Extra reading: I suggest swapping the novel for something devotional. At S. Barnabas we will be offering you the usual ‘Walk with me’ study books, but you might also consider reading a whole Gospel, or just the Passion narratives, or something else. (Last year I used ‘Lent with Benedict’ available on Amazon) or any other useful book. Additionally you might watch Jesus of Nazareth or the Passion on television.

Extra penitence: Make sure you go to confession. EVERY Christian should. Be nice to your priest and book your confession early. And then spend genuine time preparing. Why not list sins against God, self and neighbour separately?

Extra giving: Give money to charity. At S. Barnabas you will be offered a money box in aid of the ‘Additional Curate’s Society’ but any charity will do. Perhaps it is time to renew your giving or consider where your resources will go when you die. Are you considering your church family in your will as well as your nuclear family?

These are just a start. But they do show us that Lent is a glorious opportunity for us all. I bet there is not one reader who could not benefit from some spiritual renewal at this time. So as we continue to struggle as Christians in an often hostile world, let us spend time with the source of our strength, our hope, our joy and our Salvation.