Archive for May, 2009

Home from the shrine…

Sunday, May 31st, 2009

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Just back from a blissful parish pilgrimage in glorious sunshine where 40 something Barnabites enjoyed spending time together. I will share more news and photographs later this week, after I am suitably rested and refreshed. Until then I offer you just a few; the lead photograph (above) shows a snapshot of this morning’s stations…pray who is not listening to ‘father’?

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Next we see the new Shrine Administrator +Lindsay Urwin, who I felt absolutely shone in his new role. I cannot help but think that Bishop Lindsay and Walsingham are a match made in heaven, due to some clear evanglestic gifts and a down to earth nature. I could not quite put my finger on it….but there was a very tangible sense of holiness this year and I delighted in the more prominent role offfered to the various religious at the Shrine.

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The parish servers all enjoyed taking full part in the proceedings as well! I love this picture of Michael and Jon ready for action and looking far more pious than is ever really the case! Special thanks to Michael in particular who organised things for us this year.

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As you can see the Bull is lowering its tone and almost anyone can get in these days- even senior figures in the Forward in Faith movement. Surely it was only the charm and beauty of Mrs. Parkinson that got them over the threashold…but then they are sort of locals these days!

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It is not only the devotions, such as the pictured stations of the cross, which make these weekends so very special, it is also the opportunity to relax and catch up with friends. The picnic on arrival is a perfect chance for this.

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And finally the-all-to oft-seen indulgence shot taken by a very proud father. I must admit that the highlight this weekend was watching Jemima process on her own two feet, keeping pace with the bustling crowd as ‘Laud O Sion’ bellowed out from the strategically positioned speakers in the garden.

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Walsingham bound…

Friday, May 29th, 2009

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At 7.15am tomorrow morning over 40 pilgrims will gather in church for a Mass of Our Lady of Walsingham. The service will be followed by devotions at the shrine of OLW, located at the rear of the Church, before we all hop aboard a coach and prepare for a drive into the countryside. Yes it is that time of year again, tis Mary’s month of May and we set out for Walsingham itself!

The pilgrims will arrive at lunch time and a first visit to the holy house will be followed by a picnic lunch in the grounds. We will then spend the rest of the day worshipping, relaxing and eating together! As the sun sets in the Norfolk sky a fair few will be gathered together in the rear of ‘the bull’ no doubt, where a couple of drinks will be enjoyed before bed.

Sunday morning will begin with early Mass in the Shrine for our party, celebrated by myself (no excuses for the Bull crowd- those hooting with the owls need also soar with the Eagle!) There will then be the option of Solemn Mass at the parish church or Stations of the Cross in the grounds. The sprinkling at the well will be followed by the final visit and procession before we all troop back to Kent. Half way home it is a great S. Barnabas custom to stop in Thetford forest for tea and home made cakes!

This annaul pilgrimage is certainly something of a tradition. I am reliably informed that we have not missed a year since before the second world war! It is also a time of great joy, as we all come together and spend time together as a church family. Photographs to follow late on Sunday…the ones used today were taken last year!

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Our Fathers in God

Friday, May 29th, 2009

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One of the silver linings to the dark cloud of 1992 was the provision of ‘flying Bishops’ for traditionalist parishes. Since the invention of women in holy orders, Anglo-Catholics have had their own Bishops to minister to them. Pictured above is +John (Fulham) leading the Angelus after Mass in church, below is +Keith (Richborough) on the occasion of Jemima’s baptism. How precious this gift has been and how vital for our unity, identity and mission.

Perhaps we do not always praise our Bishops enough, for they have been nothing short of magnificent. So many people have commented on the manner in which the flying bishops have been ‘true’ Bishops. That is to say they preach the Gospel, administer the sacraments, defend the faith and are present, pastoral and inspiring.

In these strange in-between days, as we await the advent of ‘women bishops’ and brace ourselves to discover what provision is to be offered to those faithful to the tradition of the church throughout the ages (nothing if Synod, July 2008 was an indicator), we must pray for and support our current crop of Bishops. We need them to pull together and lead us in unity and truth. We need to ensure that they are supported by us with everything we have. And we must ensure that we are enfolding them in our prayers. I would urge every priest reading to offer Mass for their Episcopal visitor this coming week. Pray God they will continue to serve us as well as they have in the past.

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Last night’s sermon

Thursday, May 28th, 2009

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Last night was a great success as various priests and people came together to celebrate the Patronal Festival of S. Augustine of Canterbury, Belvedere. Stupidly I forgot my camera….so no pretty photographs! Instead you can enjoy this old photograph of Fr. Clive the parish priest who, as I explained in my sermon last night, is a direct successor to S. Augustine himself! I offer the homily for those who might be interested as it seemed to be well recieved:

Today we thank God for Saint Augustine of Canterbury, patron of this parish. We gather to seek his prayers and to learn from his life. Not as history lesson, not because tradition demands it, but because S. Augustine has something to teach us.

Hang on, says the cynic. Father’s a lunatic, what do we have in common with a 6th Century saint? The answer as regards your neighbour may well be ‘not a lot’ – but for those of us in church – the answer is everything! Because the task God called him to, is the same one he calls us to today.

S. Augustine came to Britain as an evangelist. He was charged with preaching the faith and teaching about Jesus Christ. And he had to this in a culture that neither wanted the Gospel nor knew it. How like Britain today. Because, make no mistake, you and I live in a society where Jesus is neither known nor wanted.

Hence the task of S. Augustine all those years ago, and of us today, is identical. We must lead people to Jesus and build up of God’s kingdom in this place. We who uphold the Catholic faith are S. Augustine’s successors. We must bring faith to an England that is, to all intents and purposes, spiritually dead.

And lets not romanticise this. S. Augustine did not stride into Britain and convert everyone with a nod of his head. He did not stand utterly assured of his success. Far from it, S. Augustine was terrified. The odds were against him. He was nervous, before he even started he felt utterly defeated. Which explains why, when he first arrived, Augustine ran away. Now someone should have warned him that its dangerous running from God in England, for like Jonah, deserters can end up in Whales! Well Augustine did not end up in Wales of either sort! Instead he was returned to England by the Pope, told to be a man and get on with it!.

Do you see the similarity once more between S. Augustine and us? We who follow the true faith, are again small in number, smaller than you might even think. for we must not be deceived by many in the pews, and I include Anglicans, Romans, and everyone else in that. Going to church does not make you a Christian anymore than sitting in a chicken coop makes you a hen! So the number of ACTUAL christians is even less than the number of those attending Mass each week! It is worse than you thought! The West is losing faith and many who claim to be Christian abandoned Jesus long ago. And now they are busy re-inventing faith to fit a compromised life and secular values.

No we who obey Jesus, who take his Gospel seriously, are a tiny remnant, frighteningly small in number. A holy huddle in a once Christian land….and more depressingly a holy huddle in a once Christian church!!! And like S. Augustine we face a daunting task. The odds are stacked against us converting the masses. And often we are scared of our future and survival. We too want to run away. To pull up the drawbridge and pretend all is well.

Well here is the good news tonight. We gather because, against all odds, S. Augustine succeeded! He did it! Not because he was brainy. Not because he was a skilful politician. Not because he was lucky. Not because he had leadership qualities. S. Augustine succeeded for one reason only. The living Lord Jesus, whom we worship today, went with him; blessing his work and providing grace through word and sacrament. God sent a priest in S. Augustine and he would not abandon him. Thus through faithful ministry and perseverance a miracle occurred. God’s love defeated man’s rebellion.

That same God, who granted Augustine a miracle, is here with us today. If we rely on ourselves, our leadership qualities, our strength, our brains or anything else, we WILL fail. But if we root ourselves in Jesus, my friends we can only succeed. It might be tough, we might need lots of patience, but God will not abandon us just as he would not abandon Augustine. The gospel will win out. It always has and it always will.

That might shock you. You might think Belvedere is beyond redemption. That the people of this, often neglected, community will never set foot in Church nor seek the touch of Jesus. But you are wrong. Every person in this town is known and loved by God. And if you are faithful in your ministry here, person by person, bit by bit a miracle of revival will happen. For proof of that- look around you. This church is growing. Fuller today than it was ten years ago. God is active in S. Augustine’s Belvedere …against all odds. And for one reason, this is a church that preaches the faith without compromise.

So finally a word to the congregation. S. Augustine was a holy man sent by God for a purpose. But he did not work alone. He took a small group with him, his congregation. Without them he would have failed, because individualism, the act of going it alone, is not the Gospel way. We are a family, a community of faith. And today God has sent another priest, he might look funny and even seem a bit odd, he wouldn’t be my choice (joke!) but God has utter faith in him. God believes in father Clive. Not to convert Britain but Belvedere. He is your Augustine and you must be his people. If Fr. Clive is to succeed against all odds, it will be because of grace AND your love, your friendship, your support and your dedication.

My brothers and sisters, be proud of S. Augustine of Canterbury your patron, be proud of what he achieved and celebrate that with passion. But do not stop there. See in him an example for yourselves. And then with passion be proud of your church, be proud of your priest, be proud of what you are all achieving here. Do that with joy and faithfulness and you will find it becomes infectious.

Saint Augustine of Canterbury

Wednesday, May 27th, 2009

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S. Augustine of Canterbury (not to be confused with S. Augustine of Hippo) was a Benedictine monk who became the first ever Archbishop of Canterbury in 598. He is therefore considered “Apostle to the English” and founder of the Church in this land.

It all sounds rather glamorous but the reality was probably different. Poor Augustine was ordered from a life of safety to lead a mission to Britain. His job, so much like ours, was to convert a society with little interest in the faith. In doing so his main objective was seen as the conversion of the the pagan King Æthelberht of the Kingdom of Kent.

Kent was chosen because it was close to the Christian kingdoms in Gaul and because Æthelberht had married a Christian princess who was daughter to the King of Paris. It was hoped she might be able to exert some influence over her husband, a safe bet if I know anything about a wife’s ability to get her own way!

King Æthelberht did eventually convert (my money was safe) and allowed the missionaries to preach freely, giving them land to found a monastery. Augustine was consecrated bishop and converted thousands. Pope Gregory sent more missionaries in 601, along with encouraging letters and gifts, although attempts to persuade the native Celtic bishops to submit to Augustine’s authority failed. (Unity amongst Christians in Britain was tricky business even then it seems!)

Roman Catholic bishops were established at London and Rochester in 604, and a school founded to train Anglo-Saxon priests and missionaries. Augustine also arranged the consecration of his successor, Laurence of Canterbury. He died in 604 and was soon revered as a saint. Tonight I will give thanks for his life and his witness by attending Solemn Mass at S. Augustine’s, Belvedere (pictured below) a service at which I have been asked to preach. Poor them and lucky me, photographs to follow….

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In celebration of Holy Matrimony

Tuesday, May 26th, 2009

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This is a photograph taken on my wedding day in 2004. Thus Hayley and I will be celebrating our fifth anniversary on 11th June this year, co-incidentaly the feast of S. Barnabas the Apostle. A lovely day for us both and five years seems significant….but it pales into insignificance besides Frank & Anita Milford, whom I was touched to read about today. For they are now Britain’s oldest living married couple. Both 101 this year, they met at a dance in 1926, tied the knot in 1928 and currently live together as man and wife at a nursing home in Devon!! So what wisdom do Frank and Anita have to offer me and all others with far less miles on the marital clock?

With great wisdom the couple insist that there is no magic secret to a successful marriage- just give and take. “You fall out and you fall in, but you keep going,” said Mr Milford- underlining in simple words what commitment is really all about. I would add that this ability to ‘just keep on, keeping on’ is as vital to faith as marriage. We must all discover afresh the ability to forgive, to battle through the tough spots, and savour the good times- or to put it more succintly; ‘fall out, fall in but keep going’ as was explained by our heroes of the day. Here is a photograph of them both:

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The couple have also built up marital success by understanding the need for family time, having spoken of how important their two children and four grandchildren are to them. Finally this ancient couple are not scared of addressing the rot. Mrs. Milford says, ‘I don’t believe people who say they’ve never had an angry word. We have often argued, everyone does and it clears the air,”. Having a secure enough relationship to speak honestly and face problems is vital for the longevity of all our relationships, with God, with family and with friends. So well done the Milfords for underlining this key quality too.

Let us thank God today for this wonderful couple and for the message of hope, commitment and love which it sends out to younger people everywhere. Soceity please take note: marriage can last, it can work and it can bring joy to man and wife- it is a supremely beautiful thing and worth celebrating in every way. And, as ever, let us also pray for those less fortunate than the Milfords, whose marriages have not worked or for whom it was never an option.

A simple game of spot the stag!

Monday, May 25th, 2009

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After a lively two days on the stag do I return, with joy, to the bosom of my family. Bristol was fantastic, a charming city made more enjoyable by glorious weather and cracking company. I have not laughed so much in a long time, as old friends came together to toast the groom’s health. Arguably the one day cricket could have been better, had the West Indies put in just a modicum of effort, but overall the occasion was simply superb.

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Doubtless there will be those who question the appropriateness of a priest attending a stag do, for it was undeniably a hedonistic affair of hi-jinks and horse play with old rugby chums. But I beg to disagree and repeatedly found myself thinking that priests should do more of this, not less.

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Why? Because amongst the drinking and silly chat came opportunities for more reasoned conversation. At ease in the presence of a priest, these intelligent young men were full of questions concerning the place of God in their lives and wider society. Amongst the beer stains and bragging, I moved from confessional to pulpit on more than one occasion and am certain that these men left with at least the rumour of God alive in their hearts.

Was this not the church engaged in evangelism? Planting the seeds of faith where they are not often spread? Several times I found myself speaking passionately to those who seldom darken the doors of a church, challenging the thinking of our age and explaining a more orthodox understanding of the world in which we live.

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Too often the church in this land is guilty of being more concerned with creating a middle classed social club rather than in taking Jesus out to the heart of the people. This weekend was not just time away with old friends, a guilty pleasure to keep quiet in the pews. This was rugged Christianity at work. A witness to young men of my own generation in this age of ignorance and misunderstanding. Just maybe this was the best work I have done as a priest in months? Now….does anyone have a spare liver I can borrow? And something for a headache would be nice!

Behold the Stag!

Saturday, May 23rd, 2009

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This is Mr. Jonny Ross; one time winger for Emmanuel college rugby club, one time cricketing blue, one time lodger in the curate’s house in Brentwood, one time dull acountant at Price Waterhouse Cooper…now Geography teacher and Master in charge of cricket at Cranleigh School, Surrey. Jon makes his second appearance in the blog today!

In seven weeks this jolly chap is marrying his sweetheart Rachel, who splits time between working as an NHS physiotherapist and at a local stables, for her passion is for horses. There is a joke there somewhere for the best man on the wedding night! What a happy day it will be, with the wedding taking place in the school chapel, presided over by yours truly. When the time comes this blog will most assuredly cover the event.

But this weekend will be neither as romantic or wholesome. For having taken two days holiday I am accompanying Jon and 14 other retrobates to Bristol (to watch over them in a pastoral sense you understand), with the intention of attending the one day cricket international between England and the West Indies. It is also rumoured that one or two drinkies will be enjoyed as we celebrate our re-union and the oncoming wedding feast of Mr. Ross. Less pious individuals inform me that such an event is referred to as ‘the stag’.

Balancing the needs of a young family with the responsibilities of being a parish priest is wonderful but often demanding, not least because free weekends do not really exist for those who stand at altars. I would have it no other way of coruse, for I am a very contented man, but I am aware that my opportunity to see old friends has been somewhat diminisehd in the last few years. So it is simply fantastic to catch up with these guys once again and enjoy some horseplay and hi-jinks. Letting the hair down occasionally is very important for us all.

Do please pray for Jon and Rachel as they approach their big day. That God might hold them together and help them build a Christian marriage based on sacrifice, humility and grace. For such marriages are the rolls royce of all unions. And finally pray too for all married couples, especially those encountering difficulties.

Risen, ascended, glorified!

Friday, May 22nd, 2009

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Last night was one of those lovely occasions when we held a full Solemn Mass, only with the congregation sat up in and around the choir stalls. It is amazing how this simple shift of location can transform the mood and emphasis of the proceedings, at once making it a more intimate and relaxed atmosphere. Thus 46 of us sat together and celebrated together the Ascension of Jesus into heaven.

I had prepared a homily which was a re-woking of a speech I offered at S. John’s Sevenoaks last year on the theme of Jesus ‘at the right hand of the father’ but, of course, your sins will find you out! And sure enough two members of S. John’s joined us last night – so at the last minute I decided to preach off the cuff instead. I always enjoy this, though am sure it is a case of plucking scant nuggets from a rambling stream for those who listen!

At the service we prayed for Fr. Vincent Nicholls as he begins his new life in Westminster, shepherding the Roman Catholic people of this land. I think he could prove an excellent appointment and I pray he will be brave in standing up for faith within the public sphere. More than ever the Church in this land needs leaders of integrity, wisdom and courage to speak out for the faith. Let us all pray for the new Arch-Bishop at this time.

The pciture above is a very modern and slightly surrealist look at the ascension. As ever with modern art, I am not sure I like it as such, but I do think it is clever, interesting and I could study it for hours….

An outside perspective

Thursday, May 21st, 2009

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It was a great pleasure to welcome Jenny Wade, a reader in training at S. Mark’s in Tunbridge Wells, on a placement at S. Barnabas’ this Eastertide. S. Mark’s has a very different tradition to ours and thus it was always going to present an interesting challenge to Jenny. What follows is her report to her supervisor, which she has granted me permission to publish. I think it is a very useful indicator to ‘us on the inside’ as to how we are viewed by visitors. Jenny writes:

I loved my placement, feeling most welcomed and cherished by the congregation…(there follows here some rather lovely words about myself which I feel a little self conscious to add!). The Easter experience was glorious! With the highs and lows of Palm Sunday and Good Friday, and the amazing experience of the lighted church (the exultet?) and Easter liturgy, I found the symbolism extremely moving and was profoundly affected by the sense of awe and respect engendered.

I loved the processing, and in retrospect had thought this might be somehow divisive in keeping the clergy exclusive. However this was far from the case and I loved the sense of involvment as we all processed together for the renewal of our baptismal vows. I noted especially the involvment of the children and how they were nurtured and cherished.

I also enjoyed the clear and direct sermons and the homilies by Father Ed. S. Barnabas is very clear in its objectives- no compromise, historically correct but somehow so very up-to-date. Emphasised by the general youthfulness of the congregation generally.

My involvment: I think I knew that I was not expected to preach during this experience. Father Ed invited me to offer the intercessions on the Monday and Tuesday evening services and to read during the Tenebrae service on the Wednesday. All good.

My conclusions: I feel so enriched by my time at S. Barnabas and will certainly return for the Easter experience and for feasts and saint’s days. Being happy with a traditional style of worship as well as that offered at my home church. I felt an even greater deepening of my connection with God at S. Barnabas, for which I am profoundly grateful.

Jenny Wade.

Well what a wonderful report. I publish it as a thank you to everybody at S. Barnabas. Thank you for your continued love, support and prayers. And don’t forget- ASCENSION DAY MASS is at 8pm tonight!!!